Finding Stability in The Face of Any Circumstance: Episode 240 with Guy & Ilan Ferdman
“Most people are not aware of what happens inside. Because we live in a world that is so external, we’ve all been trained to reach out there to get security out there. ”
– Ilan Ferdman
Today we really wanted to talk in retrospect about all the significant changes that we have been dealing with and will continue to deal with for the foreseeable future, certainly for the next year or two.
At the end of the day, it’s about our interpersonal stability, us as individuals, having the ability to stand in the face of any circumstance and still find safety and stability.
So we want to give an overview and look at both sides of the perspective of how this occurs in people's lives and in the world on a macro level.
Look, we all want change in our life, but it’s very rare that the change comes in a gentle and soothing way.
It’s often just this punch in the face, that we didn’t see coming.
Change is change, whether you believe in this or that political stance
For the most part, what we notice teaching a lot of people is that your average person just wants the same thing. We all want safety at the end of the day.
How most people deal with creating safety is by wanting other people to feel, think and act exactly as they do. They believe that then they would feel safe.
Or they try to buy themselves safety by getting a new home, new car or a new relationship, etc.
However, that is an illusion that is never going to give you long term safety and stability.
If you are waiting for the outside world to change to feel safe, you are setting yourself up for a life of struggle and unmet expectations.
So, what can we do then?
Tune into today's podcast to find out how simple it is to create stability and safety for yourself without having to worry about what's going on in the outside world.
“For the most part what we notice after having taught a lot of people, is that your average person just want the same thing: We all want safety at the end of the day.”
– Guy Ferdman
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In Today's Episode:
- How to create safety and stability in your system
- Dealing with life's inevitable changes in a calm way
- Why the new presidency is not a magic cure
- How different personality types try to create safety in their world
- Simple techniques that you can use to create safety in your life
- …and much more!
“The moment you begin to stabilize your system something magical happens. If we do the internal work within the system, the people around us start to change. ”
– Guy Ferdman