335: The Inability to Accept Ourselves: Recipe for Suffering

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Episode 335 with Guy & Ilan Ferdman

In this episode 335 of the Old Souls & Seekers podcast, Guy and Ilan Ferdman. We delve into personal reflections on life, growth, and finding inner peace. The conversation begins with celebrating contentment and gratitude, emphasizing the significance of being present with all experiences. We explore the limitations of mindset work, highlighting the necessity of embodied practices for overcoming deep-rooted issues.


We discuss the crucial role of community, practitioners, and daily practices in supporting the healing process. Emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility, practicing forgiveness, and honest communication, we address how these elements impact relationships and personal growth. The conversation also touches on the detrimental effects of stress, the need for nervous system regulation, and the commitment required to make lasting changes.

In Today's Episode:

  • Reflecting on Life and Gratitude
    The reflection on life and gratitude, celebrating Ilan's birthday and appreciating the current state of life and relationships.
  • Embracing Present Experiences:
    The importance of accepting all emotions and challenges as they arise.
  • Beyond Mindset Work:
    Discussing why traditional personal development techniques fall short without embodied practices.
  • Community and Daily Practices:
    The vital role of support systems and consistent practices in healing.
  • Responsibility and Honest Communication:
    Exploring the impact of accountability, forgiveness, and open dialogue on growth.

Everything is not being seen through a lens of love.

Guy Ferdman

Episode Chapters:

  • Personal Health and Gratitude – 00:01:57
    The conversation opens with a reflection on Ilan's recent birthday celebration, expressing a deep sense of contentment and fulfillment with life.
  • Presence with Emotions – 00:18:26
    The discussion highlights the significance of being fully present with every emotion and challenge that arises.
  • Beyond Traditional Techniques – 00:30:00
    Guy & Ilan delve into why mindset work alone is often insufficient for addressing deep-rooted issues.
  • Systems and Practices – 00:41:36
    The importance of community support and daily practices is emphasized as crucial for the healing journey.
  • Accountability in Relationships – 00:50:41
    The role of responsibility, forgiveness, and honest communication is explored in the context of personal growth and relationships.
  • Managing Stress – 00:55:48
    The necessity of down-regulating the nervous system and finding healthy ways to process emotions is discussed.
  • Commitment to Transformation – 00:58:44
    The dedication required to make lasting changes and avoid falling into familiar patterns is underscored.

Stress is the most impactful thing for humans.

Ilan Ferdman

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