Why You Can't (Fully) Heal On Your Own: Episode 265 with Guy & Ilan Ferdman

In this week's episode of the Old Souls & Seekers podcast, we are excited to share with you a conversation around healing, the importance of reaching out for support, why isolation is a deadly paradox, why change is hard, and how to make it easier.

If we want repair to happen in our system, we want to make sure that we are connecting with other healthy systems that can mirror back to us in a healthy way

Guy Ferdman

In today’s episode, we talk about how people can move faster in their personal development with actual support.

From what we have witnessed time and time again with our clients, personal development tends to isolate.

A lot of the work we do on ourselves is very solo: you are reading books by yourself, watching videos by yourself.

People are asking the question of ‘why do these patterns tend to come back'? 

We believe one part of it is human conditioning.

People have this mentality of going on a challenge for 30 days and experiencing some growth… But then they go back to their old habits.

When it’s really healthy is when it's a lifestyle change. You do the healthy things around 90% of the time and the “wrong” things around 10% of the time. 

When people are looking for the quick-fix feel good solution – it hardly ever lasts

Ilan Ferdman

When people think about their overall well-being, they don’t look to habituate it.

Most of the time they look for intense experiences, two-three day pops to ride the wave instead of using that pop as a springboard to change their habits and cultivate healthy daily habits. 

Tune into today's episode to learn how to create long-lasting shifts and changes in your life through support that will guide you through healing, transformation, and lifestyle change.

Episode Resources:

In Today's Episode:

  • How To Overcome Inability To Receive Support
  • Why We Get Stuck In Old Pattern Loops And How To Get Out
  • How To Make Long Lasting Changes In Your Life
  • Why Change Is So Painful And What To Do About It
  • ….And MUCH MORE!

When you go to a higher state your old patterns are going to be shaken. This is when you need support.

Guy Ferdman

Learn More About Satori Prime

Founded in 2011, Satori Prime is a personal development, leadership, and spiritual growth organization that caters to people across the globe. We offer digital products, community coaching events, a weekly podcast episode, group, and private coaching, as well as corporate training. On special occasions, we hold groundbreaking live events or retreats. The founders speak on stages all over the world to spread the important mission of elevating human potential and liberating ourselves from painful patterns that run most people's lives on autopilot. 

Guy and Ilan Ferdman are blood brothers and founders of Satori Prime. They have combined 36+ years of coaching in the fields of business, leadership, personal development, and spiritual growth. Their application of psychology & neuroscience combined with ancient practices of energetics gives them a unique approach to problem-solving and transforming lives. Plus, their sense of humor and charismatic nature makes their teaching style fun and effective.


5.00 Change is painful in the beginning 

10.00 Why people have an inability to receive support

20.00 People are looping their trauma stories

25.00 What isolation does to humans 

32.00 Ilan’s healing experiences 

40.00 Healing support