Episode 342 with Guy Ferdman

In episode 339 of the Old Souls & Seekers podcast, we discuss the role of practices like meditation, co-regulation (sitting with others in presence), and letting go of control in the healing process. Guy and Ilan also touches on the challenges of sharing breakthroughs with loved ones who may not understand and the need to find supportive communities. Throughout the discussion, the speaker encourages participants to be patient, persistent, and compassionate with themselves as they work through patterns and conditioning.

In Today's Episode:

  • Personal Healing Experience: Guy welcomes the attendees, shares a profound personal experience of emotional healing and release, facilitated by his wife. He describes going through an intense process of grief, sadness, and letting go of a ‘pain body' he had been carrying since childhood.
  • Embracing Emotions: Guy discusses how creating a safe and aligned space within ourselves can help surface bigger layers of emotional patterns for healing. This part of the discussion highlights the necessity of embracing intense emotional experiences for true transformation.
  • Personal Growth and Responsibility: Guy delves into broader themes of personal growth and responsibility, introducing the concepts of ‘growing up' and ‘waking up.' He stresses the importance of taking radical responsibility, practicing forgiveness, and maintaining integrity in relationships and personal development.
  • Inviting Experiences: Guy discuss the idea of inviting people to experiences rather than convincing them, the speaker shares personal examples of how extending invitations without pressure or judgment allows others to explore and discover for themselves.
  • Energetic Influence and Self-Acceptance: Guy highlights the power of our energetic state, the speaker explains how cultivating a neutral, compassionate, and loving state within ourselves can positively impact our relationships and environment.


There's no emotion that you've had in your life forever. You've never been sad forever. You've never been happy forever. You've never been neutral forever. You've never been anything forever. We really want to maintain vigilance in our presence and understanding of that.

Guy Ferdman


Episode Chapters:

  • Emotional Healing Journey (00:09:18) Sharing personal experience of emotional healing and release. And going through an intense process of grief, sadness, and letting go of a ‘pain body' he had been carrying since childhood. The experience involves visualizations and a deep emotional purge, allowing him to release long-held patterns and energy blockages.
  • Allowing Emotions to Arise (00:13:11) Emphasizing the importance of allowing emotions to arise and be felt, rather than suppressing or avoiding them. Explaining that generating more safety and alignment within ourselves enables bigger layers of emotional patterns to surface for healing.
  • Embracing Unsolvable Problems (00:26:20) Introducing the concept of working on problems that cannot be solved as a way to shift perspective and find peace in the ongoing journey. He suggests that instead of trying to solve every problem that arises, we can choose to work on a problem that is so big that we know it cannot be solved.
  • Extending Invitations (00:34:55) Discussing the idea of inviting people to experiences rather than trying to convince them of our beliefs or ideologies. He shares examples from his personal experience, emphasizing the importance of extending invitations without pressure or judgment. This approach allows others to explore and discover for themselves, rather than feeling forced or coerced.
  • Energetic State and Influence (00:41:18) Highlighting the power of our energetic state and its influence on those around us. He suggests that by cultivating a neutral, compassionate, and loving state within ourselves, we can positively impact our relationships and environment without needing to directly confront or change others.

If you're avoiding stuff all the time, you're merged into it.

Guy Ferdman


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